As the friendship day is nearing this to all my dear friends who read my blog, my way of wishing them HAPPY FRIENDSHIP's DAY
Yes you may think is this a defination of a friend or a life partner? Yes this is friendship! You learn a lot from it! Your friend can tell you the right and wrong in a language understood by you. He very well knows how you feel and how your your mood swings. He is the one who understands you better than your parents! Yes! There are many things that a friend can tell you and you won't even feel offended if he taunts at the reality. But when the same thing (which the friend told) is told to us by our parents we easily get irritated and frustrated! Why? Don't you love your parents? Yes you do! You accept it openly but hardly anyone accepts openly that they love and care for their friends! Actually it is supposed to be felt and not told! Friends speak out their love,anger,frustration via actions and not verbally! Your best friend is the one who can see the pain in your eyes while the world is fooled by your smile. Friendship does not include the timed and decided talks but it includes helping and caring. A true friend may not meet or call you daily but while going to bed he just prays to God for your wellbeing. Thats true...
Actually I didn't believe in the concept of BEST FRIEND at first. But now I do believe. There are 1-2 best friends for everyone. It with those two people whom you can share all things and reveal your true self! They are the one who will slap you in anger but will be the first one who will wipe your tears. They may not talk to you daily but when they talk, they talk endlessly. They may not give you gifts on your birthday but one thing they can give you is a big bear hug. That immaterial gift you will always cherish! They will be the one who will care a lot about you yet pretend that you are a piece of crap for them. Their care and warmth cannot be seen but can only be felt in the heart. When you feel low just think of those idiots and automatically a smile will pop up! Its true!(I know by now you must be thinking of your best friends and then you will laugh at your own self and say VERY TRUE in your mind)
But do we find true friends in this world? Are there friends who like us just because we are unique and we are like us? We claim many people to be out friend but hey the number of friends in your facebook friend list is just the number of acqiantances. Friends are much more than that! Just by posting HAPPY BIRTHDAY on you wall doesn't mean that the person is your friend. In todays world its difficult to guage a friend. Many people use you just for completing their task and after doing so they disgracefully discard you. Trust me there are peole like this. There are people who kick you and go once their aim is fulfilled. Its really rare to get friends. Many of the people become friends just by checking your social status and your bank balance. True friends won't give a damn about your looks but yes will think a lot about your inner self.
From my experience I say that never close the door for friendship. Its the most subtle and the strongest form of relation. Friendship lies above all. Love comes second as friendship is purer, devoid of mushy things and have enough rights to irritate and trouble. There are some limitations in love but in friendship there are none. It is as vast as the Pacific Ocean and limitless like the space yet very close to you. So I would like to tell that don't back out on your friend. Trust them care for them and you will be invincible. No one can distract you nor hurt you as the shield of friendship never wears away. So all the best to my readers and hope you wont take your friends FOR GRANTED. Don't you too feel so? So just hangout with your friend and dare you hurt them...
