Yeah, people usually give up half way! They think trying more is useless and they just give up, even though they are only a few millimetres away from success! We all have heard the story of the spider and the king. Our mother used to motivate us by this same old story. But we just forget it as we grow up. We also forget our childhood fantasies as we grow up. When we were small we used to dream about all weird things starting from a fireman to a pop-star, from a doctor to an astronaut! But hey why do we think that they are a child's fantasy? Why majority of us say that that dream was nothing but a height of immature and innocent thought. Now its too late! But hey its never too late to start something new!
Here is an interesting thing you can do. Just do a small survey. Ask your parents, grandparents and your elder relatives that what did they dream of becoming in their life when they were a child of six or seven. You will get very different answers. But when you ask them why didn't they realise their dream then all give the same answer that it was just a foolish thought and when you tell them that just try it now and there is a prompt reply that 'ITS TOO LATE!'
But this is life. We get so busy in life and fulfilling all responsibilities that we forget to live for ourselves. Our mother is the best example! She must have done infinite sacrifices for us and her family. Like she must have sacrificed her carefree attitude when she got married. She must have left her job just to take care of us and what does she get in return? Comments like "GO AWAY!" Anyway we'll talk about it someday later. Getting back to the theme, we can clearly see that how people just give up their dream, their aspirations and their ambitions!
I was made to think all this by a vagabond on thane station, platform 10! He was a young guy of about ten or eleven. The 9:20pm Nerul train was scheduled. I and my friend were there on that platform. I wanted to talk to him so he decided to take the next train. But while we were talking the train started. Soon it started gaining lot of speed and momentum(sorry can't help, science student) But just then that vagabond was trying to get it. As it was not the usual office time there was less rush. The train had gained a lot of speed. The boy wanted to get in very desperately. As if it was the last train on earth. He could not run fast to match up the train's speed. He had held the door handle but and was running along with the train, actually he was being dragged by the train like a water skier being pulled by the motor boat. But he still didn't give up! He ran the entire length of the platform, gathered momentum and finally at the edge got in the train! Just like a movie scene! We both thought that this was the end of that chap's life. But yet he had hopes. He didn't give up. Infact if he would have given up he would have badly hurt himself as he would have flung with the same speed as that of the train and might have injured himself badly! But he did it. Yes, when you need success as desperately as air to breathe you achieve it!
So friends that is what I want to say. Never give up chasing your dream. Pursue it. Realise it! APJ Abdul Kalam, former president of India, said that 'Dreams are not things which you see when you sleep but they are things which don't allow you to sleep.' Indeed a lot of depth in that line! So friends I say that just don't waste your talent. Its never to start something new. Infact its better to try than to regret later. Life gives you opportunities. Make best use of them as when they come they may seem small but when they go they look large.
So just go chase your dream....
Hats off..!
ReplyDeleteA really important thing almost all of us miss in our lives is to LIVE, Live for ourselves,chasing our own dreams. We all become as cold towards our dreams when we grow old as passionate we are when young, why?
It's because most of us don't believe ourselves, our dreams, that even they can come true!
I really liked the example of the vagabond you gave, i think that many times, the people we ignore in the society grow up to be bigger, because they have nothing to lose! They believe to the fullest in whatever they do. Why can't we do that?
So come on people out there, whoever gave up in like, START AFRESH! It's never too late to start again.
All the best! Keep writing omi!